Many of us have had the downer experience of getting really excited about seeing a show only to be disappointed in it. Those are never fun, right? But how about those shows that we go into with almost no or - worse yet - low expectations? Sure, some of those show meet those low standards. At least they give us some great "we were there" stories!
It has been my experience, though, that more often than not, those shows are the ones I end up enjoying the most.
Say Goodnight Gracie? George Burns? Yawn. One man shows? Double yawn. Got a comp to the National Tour with the late Frank Gorshin, and LOVED it. I laughed. I cried. Good times.
Hair. Not a big fan of the whole hippies-60's thing. Like maybe two songs in it. No Jonathan Groff? Went because I try to see all the new musicals and revivals each season. Got a cheap front row seat, Will Swensen stood on my chair and wiggled his crotch in my face, and I saw Jay Armstrong Johnson for the very first time. I loved it so much I called Mike from the street the second I got out! (He ended up being a real Hair groupie!)
Speaking of Mike, we both went to Xanadu specifically to see what a train wreck it would be. The place was on FIRE! The cast, the band, the audience. I haven't laughed as hard since. Saw it 5 or 6 times... Then there is our much chronicled love affair with American Idiot. (This blog is full of info on that topic!)
Some current shows that fit include Cinderella (I will see anything with Laura Osnes, but I never expected to be so transported... and Santino Fontana? Grrrr!), After Midnight (Not a huge Fantasia fan, and I'm not too big on musical revues.), First Date (Saw it, liked it way more than I thought I would. I am now a Zachary Levi fan for life.), Matilda (Had read the book years ago... "kids shows" are an iffy proposition... LOVED it! One of the best shows in many seasons!), and A Night with Janis Joplin (See my notes on Hair...).
But my three biggest unexpected thrills in years are:
3. The Book of Mormon: I saw it shortly after it opened, before the hype machine was in full gear, and at a discount, no less! I had seen exactly one episode of South Park at that point, I think. And I went just to see it as part of my see-every-new-musical thing, and mostly because Mike was so excited about it - though we both were fully prepared for a flop. Well, the rest is history. People pay a couple hundred bucks to sit where I did, you can't get tickets for months in advance, and it is a cultural phenomenon. And I can't wait to see it again!
2. Once: Never saw the movie. Never heard of Cristin Milioti, only knew a little about Steve Kazee. And European pub music? Not so much. I fell in love with Kazee and Milioti the minute they locked eyes in two spotlights. I laughed, I wept. My soul ached when it was over. Loved it even more the second time.
1. next to normal: I have written many a blog about my love for this modern masterpiece, so I won't bore you again. But talk about low expectations! The only reason I went was because I love Alice Ripley, but really? A show about bipolar disorder? And I hated Jersey Boys, so I didn't want to see J. Robert Spencer, and was miffed that Brian d'Arcy James left it to do Shrek. Well, I was in awe - literally, I sat with my mouth open for the whole show. It was one of those life-changing moments. And now I'm a fan of Tom Kitt and Brian Yorkey, not to mention my crushes on Jennifer Damiano, Aaron Tveit and Adam Chanler-Berat!
Hmmm... do I need to keep my expectations in check for the upcoming Kitt/Yorkey show, If/Then?
Write in (or Tweet me) with your unexpected favorites!
Jeff
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Showing posts with label expectations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label expectations. Show all posts
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
UPDATE: Your Disappointments... and Favorite Broadway Couples
Well, I asked, and you answered... A LOT of you answered! Thanks! Recently, I posted two blogs: one about favorite Broadway couples, real-life and in shows (HERE), and the other about shows being disappointments after hearing all the hype surrounding them (HERE). Several of you emailed and Tweeted about your favorites, and here are some of the most popular responses:
Some classics you mentioned:
Some more modern couples you mentioned - The Top 5:
5. Raoul and Christine Daae (The Phantom of the Opera) (The Phantom and Christine got some votes, too.)
4. Boy and Molly (Peter and the Starcatcher)
3. Princeton and Kate Monster (Avenue Q)
2. Elphaba and Fiyero (Wicked)
1. Marius and Cosette (Les Miserables) (Marius and Eponine got a few votes, too.)
Honorable Mention: Sky and Sophie (Mamma Mia!) and Link Larkin and Tracy Turnblad (Hairspray)
@BBwithPickles: The revival of A Chorus Line "uninspired, boring and drawn out"
@kevinddaly: Clybourne Park "I expected to be wowed, instead I was let-down and a bit bored."
(@ydavey and @tapeworthy agreed)
@TwoShow Days: "Priscilla & Kinky Boots were both extremely tame for shows about drag queens. And the acclaimed War Horse bored me."
@mrtylermartins: "Definitely Golden Boy"
Some of you asked what current shows disappointed me. Hmmm... Big Fish and Jersey Boys for sure!
Keep sending in your choices for future blogs!
Jeff
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YOUR FAVORITE BROADWAY COUPLES (FROM SHOWS)
Some classics you mentioned:
- Anna and the King (The King and I)
- Nathan Detroit and Miss Adelaide (Guys and Dolls)
- Marian Paroo and Harold Hill (The Music Man)
- Danny Zuko and Sandy Dumbrowski (Grease)
- Nellie Forbush and Emile de Becque (South Pacific)
Some more modern couples you mentioned - The Top 5:
5. Raoul and Christine Daae (The Phantom of the Opera) (The Phantom and Christine got some votes, too.)
4. Boy and Molly (Peter and the Starcatcher)
3. Princeton and Kate Monster (Avenue Q)
2. Elphaba and Fiyero (Wicked)
1. Marius and Cosette (Les Miserables) (Marius and Eponine got a few votes, too.)
Honorable Mention: Sky and Sophie (Mamma Mia!) and Link Larkin and Tracy Turnblad (Hairspray)
YOUR MOST DISAPPOINTING SHOWS:
@BBwithPickles: The revival of A Chorus Line "uninspired, boring and drawn out"
@kevinddaly: Clybourne Park "I expected to be wowed, instead I was let-down and a bit bored."
(@ydavey and @tapeworthy agreed)
@TwoShow Days: "Priscilla & Kinky Boots were both extremely tame for shows about drag queens. And the acclaimed War Horse bored me."
@mrtylermartins: "Definitely Golden Boy"
Some of you asked what current shows disappointed me. Hmmm... Big Fish and Jersey Boys for sure!
Keep sending in your choices for future blogs!
Jeff
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Friday, November 8, 2013
Great Expectations... Greater Disappointment (Usually)
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| Does The Book of Mormon live up to the hype for most audience members? |
What brings me to this rambling discussion? Well, ironically enough, a message board (from my nemesis Broadway website, no less) concerning a show I'll be seeing next week and that will be opening soon. Why look, if I know the messages will infuriate me, spoil the show for me, and so on? Well, this particular show has almost no buzz beyond a few clever advertisements, and a comparatively lacking PR machine (at least so far). Curiosity was killing this cat. As I read about people's impressions of a first preview, followed eventually by people who have seen it before its main stem bow, and then those who have seen later previews, I was getting a real idea of early consensus . Interspersed are what I call the "voices of reason," posters who remind us that we shouldn't judge a new show before it is completely ready, or that we should completely dismiss a show without having seen it for ourselves, blah blah blah.
What sets this particular thread apart, though, is the pervasive theme of disappointment in the show not living up to preconceived expectations, most based upon the slim description of the show by its press corps than by anything else. "I thought it would be more like XYZ or ABC." "It wasn't nearly as funny as LMN, or a fast-paced as EFG." "It is too much like a cross between HIJ and PQR, but not as good as either." And that reminded me that in more than 30 years of going to Broadway shows, it is generally true that shows that I was really really excited about ended up disappointing me, while shows I didn't know much about, or better yet, I wasn't really interested in, more often than not, ended up being the shows I loved the most. Only rarely has the hype matched my reaction to it. (Oddly enough, it has happened twice in 2013: I loved both Pippin and The Glass Menagerie as much, if not more, than I thought I would after hearing so much about both. Generally, it is much rarer.)
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| You can't get much more hype than the cover of a national magazine! |
Well, I was determined that the next big show was not going to suffer the same fate. I was going to see it early and bask in the glow of enraptured friends who would hang on my every word about it. That show was Les Miserables, and I read everything I could find about it, and memorized the London Cast Recording. In short, I was fully prepared to love it. I didn't. I really didn't like it. When the show didn't start with the rousing "At the End of the Day," like the tape did, it threw me off, and I sat there for a good 20 minutes wondering if they cut it altogether. Then, worst of all, the boredom set in. It was monotonous, monotone and only occasionally interesting (mostly when they sang loud), and even, I felt, insulting. Those Thenardiers sure pandered to the lowest common denominator, right? I actually nodded off during both acts, original Broadway cast or not. I was two for two: high expectations with low returns.
The third show, The Phantom of the Opera, I'm afraid suffered the same fate as Cats, only this time it was simply because you had to wait months - just short of a year in my case - to even get a ticket\. Michael Crawford and Sarah Brightman were looonnnggg gone. And the cast recording did nothing to gain my interest - every long, boring opera aria sounded the same, each love ballad so sappy I feared diabetes from all the sugar. Only two numbers kept my interest, the title song and "Masquerade." Seeing the show, at last, didn't change my opinion, either. The chandelier falling was literally a laugh out loud moment for me - not scary, but lumbering and awkward instead. And despite some lovely costumes, the rest of the show was as dull to me as listening to the CD. And even my two favorite songs were disappointing - one was clearly done to a pre-recorded soundtrack, the other, eye-popping until you realize half the "cast" was mannequins!
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| Can you pick out which of these are living human beings? |
Maybe Phantom was about more than disappointing. I simply do not like it. Cats and Les Miz both grew on me, though. Once I made peace with what they actually were versus what I imagined them to be, I learned to enjoy them for the shows they are.
That message board that started all of this now includes a posting from someone who hit the nail on the head when she asked: "Well, now that you know what the show is, do you think you might enjoy it more now on its own merits?" I wish I could go into EVERY show with that in mind: enjoy it on its own merits. I'll let you know what I think about the show in question in about two weeks.
But what about those shows I went into with no expectations, or even better, going into with dread? That I'll leave until next week! In the mean time, are there any shows that you saw with great expectations, but ended up being disappointed in? Write in with your story!
Jeff
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