I've lived through the era - just as I was reaching my own sexual peak - of AIDS being "the gay plague," or "God's punishment for queers," and all that rot. And while I applaud (and attended) a lot of "gay theatre" where AIDS and political activism brought about by AIDS - Angels in America, Love! Valour! Compassion!, As Is - I have to say that after awhile all the banging of drums and rallying cries became just so much white noise to the public and even the gay community. Understand that I continue to champion the cause for being sexually responsible and am appalled by the blase attitude toward safe sex in this Manhunt/Facebook world we live in. But as a community, I think we have bigger fish to fry, namely plain, old-fashioned equality. The politics of being gay is, finally, shifting from "look at us we are different and deserve a piece of the pie, too" to "we are just like everyone else and we deserve a piece of the pie, too."
I have very accepting straight friends who would and have fought with me over discriminatory behavior in the workplace, marriage rights, health benefits and rights, etc. We have bonded over these very issues. Why? Because in pointing out the inequities, both sides have come to appreciate where the other is coming from, and we all fight together for common ground. But even they question things like "why when there are gay pride events, do we only ever see drag queens and men all dressed like Judy Garland in The Wizard of Oz.?" Frankly, it is hard to explain. I, personally, believe that you should feel free to "fly your freak flag" - if wearing women's clothes helps you identify who you are, go for it. But a gold spandex jumpsuit and gigantic rainbow afro wig and gaudy makeup isn't about exressing yourself so much as it is performing as a member of the opposite gender. And being one of fify guys in pig tail braids, a blue ginham jumper and red sequined slip ons has zero to do with self-expression and all to do with being seen. No more, no less. And in that my straight friends and I completely agree.
Healy's article talks about the swing toward and then away from AIDS/political statement gay plays to what we are experiencing today: gays struggling for marriage rights/family rights (La Cage aux Folles), the right to fight for their country openly (Yank! ), gays struggling with religion (Next Fall), gays struggling with adoption (The Kid), gays struggling with notoriety (The Little Dog Laughed, Take Me Out). (I have tickets to three of these shows already, and will report on them here as I see them.)
And, shock of shocks, it can be done without a Dorothy costume.
(Photos, top to bottom: Next Fall, La Cage aux Folles, and Yank!)
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Jeff
Hey Jeff,
ReplyDeleteA very thoughtful post!
I agree with you about Torch Song Trilogy and La Cage Aux Folles. I've seen the movies of both of them and above all, they're compelling stories with memorable characters.
You know, 10 or 15 years ago I barely knew anyone who was openly gay. But times have changed. Now, I have friends, coworkers, neighbors who are openly gay and lesbian. When we talk about our lives - our hopes and fears - there's no difference.
And that's the way stories of gay and lesbian people deserve to be told onstage, not as an example of some "other" but as fellow human beings, with respect and compassion, with the same struggles and dreams we all have.
I think these plays are an example of that and I think it's a positive direction. I'm especially looking forward to "The Kid." It's my favorite Dan Savage book and it's such sweet story. Hopefully I'll get a chance to see it!